It probably comes as no big surprise to anyone that I get very attached to experiences and people. I am very, VERY bad at goodbyes, and I let them affect me more than I should. It's one of the big reasons that I started isolating myself and keeping myself from truly connecting with people. I feel like I'm always leaving, and it messes me up too much emotionally to invest in that. Throughout recovery, I have found that I need those deep connections to function, so now that I'm breaking out of that bad habit, I'm finding myself overwhelmed with the thought of saying goodbye to this show and these guys. Luckily, this is only the first step in my Florida journey...at least I won't have to say goodbye to the place! Many members of my Burnt Part family are here too, so that makes it easier. I'm still pretty torn up about the whole thing, though.
It's amazing the difference a year makes. Last year (although I would have never admitted it) when the clock was ticking down on "Spring Awakening," I was so excited for it to be over. Emily ruled my life. She was making every waking moment a living hell and constantly telling me what a piece of shit I was. This year I gave myself over to the experience. There were glimpses of Emily, but with the help and support of everyone around me, I was able to silence her and keep her from ever intruding on this journey.
The scrappy little whistle blower pictured above made me feel stronger than I ever have before. She made me understand how important it is to be fueled, to have a clear mind, and to fully connect with what is happening around me. She made me understand how much BETTER life is when all of your senses aren't wrapped in cotton wool, and when you don't have a track of negative self talk constantly running in your brain. I will carry Frances Boggs with me for the rest of my life.
I wouldn't change a thing about this experience. This family shared something truly special. Thank you all for letting me be one of the boys. <33
Princess Frances OUT.